ABOUT WHAT IS ACTUALLY GOING ON IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP
If you're here, you’ve probably had enough. Enough of feeling like you have one foot in and one foot out—stuck in limbo, unable to truly leave, yet unable to stay. Enough of believing in the “potential” of what could be, only to have the rug pulled out from under you again and again.
You don’t have to keep feeling hollow and exhausted, chained to the hope that things might one day change.
You’re not crazy, and it’s not your fault.
It’s not too much to ask for love that lifts you up, instead of a toxic love that leaves you questioning what is real, doubting your worth and sacrificing your sanity.
Imagine a Life Where You Wake Up Free—Not Dreading the Next Blow.
That’s not just a dream. It’s closer than you think.
I am here to remind you:
You deserve a life where you are no longer walking on eggshells, being the “gray rock”, and hiding within your own home.
You deserve a life where your boundaries are respected, your mind is clear, and you feel confident and empowered every single day.
You deserve a life where you are free to be YOU, to express your true self, and to be safe, loved, and cherished.
What if today was the day everything changed?
What if today was the day everything changed?
HERE'S WHAT YOU GET:
Most recovery programs cost anywhere from $5,000 to $10,000, but I created Unchained for just $197 so that any woman can start her journey to freedom without barriers. This isn’t just another course—it’s a powerful, step-by-step roadmap to help you finally let go of the past, embrace your truth, and create a future you’re excited about.
(Pssst! Here’s a little-known fact: the tools and support in Unchained have helped over 3,500 women take back their lives and heal for good. Will you be next?)
In just 30 days, break the chains of self-doubt and emotional manipulation.
Unchained is Your 30-Day Roadmap To Freedom. Inside this online home-study program, you will receive:
Unchained is Your 30-Day Roadmap To Freedom.
Inside this online home-study program, you will receive:
Daily audio lessons to guide you every step of the way
Exclusive access to the Freedom Formula for lasting change
Practical tools to gain clarity, regain control and rebuild your life
Support from a private, empowering community
Unchained is designed to help you break free and thrive.
It’s structured to guide you through powerful change in just 30 days. Start now, and don’t look back.
It’s time to take
your power back
You do not need to live like this anymore.
My name is Ben Taylor, and it’s my purpose and mission to take women like you by the hand, and show you how to free yourself from the prison of your relationship with a narcissist.
This is not about “breaking up and leaving.” This is about finding your inner clarity and personal empowerment.
Let me be your guide, your mentor, and your coach.
As you continue reading the words on this page, I invite you to take your power back.
Breathe that in:
It’s time to take your power back.
I want this page to remind you of the powerful woman you are inside.
And I want this very moment to be THE moment you draw the line in the sand, and make today the first day of the rest of your life.
The day you declared to yourself: “I deserve to be free. I deserve to be me.”
It’s time to take your power back
My name is Ben Taylor, and it’s my purpose and mission to take women like you by the hand, and show you how to free yourself from the prison of your relationship with a narcissist.
This is not about “breaking up and leaving.” This is about finding your inner clarity and personal empowerment.
Let me be your guide, your mentor, and your coach.
As you continue reading the words on this page, I invite you to take your power back.
Breathe that in:
It’s time to take your power back.
I want this page to remind you of the powerful woman you are inside.
And I want this very moment to be THE moment you draw the line in the sand, and make today the first day of the rest of your life.
The day you declared to yourself: “I deserve to be free. I deserve to be me.”
Stay for the kids, even if it’s tearing you apart.
Ignore your instincts, because you’re probably just “overreacting.”
Keep hoping he’ll change, even though history keeps repeating itself.
Believe it’s your fault and that if you could just be “better,” he’d finally treat you right.
Continue seeing the therapist who lacks the skills for deep healing, potentially perpetuating the cycle.
Stay for the kids, even if it’s tearing you apart.
Ignore your instincts, because you’re probably just “overreacting.”
Keep hoping he’ll change, even though history keeps repeating itself.
Believe it’s your fault and that if you could just be “better,” he’d finally treat you right.
Continue seeing the therapist who lacks the skills for deep healing, potentially perpetuating the cycle.
It’s no wonder you’re feeling exhausted, confused, and trapped. But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Because deep down, you know there’s another way. You know you deserve more than being trapped in a cycle of doubt, anxiety, and emotional pain.
You want to reclaim your life—where YOU set the boundaries, YOU find peace, and YOU decide what your future looks like.
And let me tell you—you CAN have that. This isn’t just wishful thinking. You just need the right tools, guidance, and support to help you get there. And that’s exactly what Unchained is here to offer.
No more walking on eggshells.
No more second-guessing yourself or feeling trapped in a cycle that drains you of your energy, happiness and confidence.
With Unchained, in just 30-days, you’ll learn how to take control of your future by breaking free from toxic ties and reclaiming your voice, self-worth, and inner peace. You deserve to wake up every day feeling strong, clear-headed, and empowered by the life you’re creating for yourself.
Deep down, you know you were made for more.
Awareness:
Recognizing the
Narcissist’s Tactics
Spot the Red Flags: Recognize patterns like gaslighting, future faking, and love-bombing.
Identify the Cycle of Abuse: Understand how the stages of abuse operate to keep you feeling stuck.
Know the “Flying Monkeys”: Learn about the enablers who reinforce the narcissist’s power over you.
Breaking the Bond:
Understanding & EndinG
the Emotional Hold
Escape Trauma Bonds: Learn why you feel emotionally stuck and how to break the bond.
Overcome Cognitive Dissonance: Resolve the mental conflicts that keep you in the cycle.
Resist the “Hoover”: Recognize attempts to pull you back and stay firm in your decision to leave.
Reclaiming Your Power:
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace
To move forward, you must create and maintain healthy boundaries to protect your mental and emotional space.
Master the Art of Boundaries: Set clear limits that reflect your values and protect your well-being.
No Contact Essentials: Embrace no contact to fully disconnect and accelerate your healing.
Guard Against Future Manipulation: Establish personal standards to avoid repeating the past.
Your Self-Worth:
Rebuilding and Reinforcing Your Sense of Self
This section empowers you to rebuild your self-worth, reconnect with your identity, and fortify your confidence.
Rediscover Your Identity: Separate who you are from the narcissist’s influence.
Rebuild Self-Worth: Heal the damage to your self-esteem and reclaim your confidence.
Strengthen Emotional Regulation: Manage your emotions to regain control over your life.
Your Future:
The Freedom Formula & Moving Forward
In this final stage, you’ll integrate the lessons you’ve learned, fostering a life of freedom, resilience, and personal empowerment.
Stay Empowered Against Smear Campaigns: Rise above false narratives and protect your reputation.
Own Your Time and Energy: Prioritize self-care, set values-based goals, and live a life aligned with who you truly are.
Live Free of Toxic Patterns: Build relationships that support your growth and bring you true joy.
30 days: Of Education, Tools, & Empowerment.................INCLUDED
24 videos: 2 hours, 44 minutes to watch & absorb..........INCLUDED
75 audios: 7.5 hours to listen & learn..........................................INCLUDED
10+ TOTAL HOURS: Of Content......................................................INCLUDED
30 Daily Growth Prompts: Action Steps................................INCLUDED
Recognizing the Narcissist’s Tactics...........................................INCLUDED
Understanding and Ending the Emotional Hold..............INCLUDED
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace................INCLUDED
Rebuilding and Reinforcing Your Sense of Self..................INCLUDED
The Freedom Formula & Moving Forward.............................INCLUDED
30 days: Of Education, Tools, & Empowerment...........................INCLUDED
24 videos: 2 hours, 44 minutes to watch & absorb............................INCLUDED
75 audios: 7.5 hours to listen & learn...................................................INCLUDED
10+ TOTAL HOURS: Of Content................. ...............................................................INCLUDED
30 Daily Growth Prompts: Action Steps..................................................INCLUDED
Recognizing the Narcissist’s Tactics...............................................INCLUDED
Understanding and Ending the Emotional Hold..........................INCLUDED
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace.....................................INCLUDED
Rebuilding and Reinforcing Your Sense of Self................................INCLUDED
The Freedom Formula & Moving Forward...........................................INCLUDED
This course is your comprehensive guide to breaking free, healing, and reclaiming your life. Whether you’re looking to understand what’s happening, break the hold, or finally find peace, this course will take you every step of the way. Empower yourself today—your path to freedom and fulfillment begins here.
This course is your comprehensive guide to breaking free, healing, and reclaiming your life. Whether you’re looking to understand what’s happening, break the hold, or finally find peace, this course will take you every step of the way. Empower yourself today—your path to freedom and fulfillment begins here.
Have you ever stopped to ask yourself:
How much longer can I carry the weight of this pain?
What is it costing me to stay stuck—emotionally, physically, and spiritually?
Am I finally ready to choose me?
Because here’s the truth: toxic love doesn’t just break your heart—it consumes your entire life. And the longer you wait, the more it takes.
This isn’t just about a relationship. It’s about reclaiming your health, your identity, your future.
Let me show you how toxic love wages war on every part of you—and why breaking free is the most important gift you can give yourself.
It’s time to trust your inner-voice, take back your freedom, and reclaim your life.
Abuse doesn’t just break your heart—it seeps into your body, steals your identity, and leaves you fighting for every ounce of peace.
Let’s talk about the toll this has taken on your life:
Your Body: Constant stress and emotional turmoil from this relationship can lead to chronic fatigue, headaches, digestive issues, and even weakened immunity. Your body becomes a battleground, carrying the weight of emotional pain.
Your Being: You lose your sense of self, your confidence, and your connection to who you truly are. Self-doubt and fear of speaking up become constant companions, leaving you feeling like a shell of who you once were.
Your Balance: A toxic relationship isolates you from others. Friendships fade, family connections weaken, and the emotional rollercoaster leaves you too drained to engage with the people who truly matter.
Your Business or Career: The impact spills into your career and financial well-being. Lack of focus, missed opportunities, and financial strain from legal fees, therapy, or coping mechanisms can keep you from thriving professionally.
This cycle doesn’t have to continue. Unchained is here to guide you back to health, wholeness, and freedom in every area of your life.
It’s not just you. The pain, the self-doubt, the exhaustion—it’s part of the toxic cycle designed to keep you stuck. But here’s the truth: breaking free is possible. And I know this because I’ve been on the other side of it—causing the kind of pain you’re experiencing now.
It’s not just you. The pain, the self-doubt, the exhaustion—it’s part of the toxic cycle designed
to keep you stuck. But here’s the truth: breaking free is possible. And I know this because
I’ve been on the other side of it—causing the kind of pain you’re experiencing now.
My Wake-Up Call… How I Went From Destroyer to Healer
Let me share the moment that changed everything—and how it led me to help women like you break free and reclaim their lives.
I want to let you in on something. For years, I didn’t see the destruction I was causing. As a diagnosed narcissist, I manipulated, controlled, and hurt the people I claimed to love. It wasn’t until my wife walked out, leaving me to face the wreckage I’d created, that I finally hit rock bottom.
In that moment of loss and clarity, I had a choice: to stay the same or to fight for something better. The pain of my own actions pushed me into a deep healing journey—one that completely transformed my life and relationships.
I know the weight of toxicity, both as the person perpetuating it and as someone working to rebuild from it. That’s why it’s my mission to help women like you break free, heal deeply, and never look back.
Unchained was born from my passion to empower women to reclaim their lives. I created this program with everything I wish my wife and I had during our darkest times. My hope is that Unchained becomes your guide, your lifeline, and your reminder that you are worth every ounce of healing.
You’ve been told to put others first, to sacrifice your peace for someone else’s chaos. But today can be the day you choose differently—the day you take back your power and begin living the life you truly deserve.
Your future is waiting.
All my best,
Ben Taylor
Abuse Recovery Coach
My Wake-Up Call… How I Went From Destroyer to Healer
Let me share the moment that changed everything—and how it led me to help women like you break free and reclaim their lives.
I want to let you in on something. For years, I didn’t see the destruction I was causing. As a diagnosed narcissist, I manipulated, controlled, and hurt the people I claimed to love. It wasn’t until my wife walked out, leaving me to face the wreckage I’d created, that I finally hit rock bottom.
In that moment of loss and clarity, I had a choice: to stay the same or to fight for something better. The pain of my own actions pushed me into a deep healing journey—one that completely transformed my life and relationships.
I know the weight of toxicity, both as the person perpetuating it and as someone working to rebuild from it. That’s why it’s my mission to help women like you break free, heal deeply, and never look back.
Unchained was born from my passion to empower women to reclaim their lives. I created this program with everything I wish my wife and I had during our darkest times. My hope is that Unchained becomes your guide, your lifeline, and your reminder that you are worth every ounce of healing.
You’ve been told to put others first, to sacrifice your peace for someone else’s chaos. But today can be the day you choose differently—the day you take back your power and begin living the life you truly deserve.
Your future is waiting.
All my best,
Ben Taylor
Abuse Recovery Coach
The Unchained Program
Is for Two Types of Women:
The Woman Ready to Break Free
You’re done feeling trapped in a toxic relationship, questioning your worth, and sacrificing your happiness. You’re ready to reclaim your voice, set boundaries, and take back control of your life. This is your moment to make a fresh start and say goodbye to the pain that’s been holding you back.
The Survivor Seeking Lasting Healing
You’ve already taken steps toward freedom, but something still feels incomplete. You’re looking for the tools and support to rebuild your self-trust, process lingering emotions, and create a life where your peace is unshakable. Unchained will help you bridge the gap between surviving and thriving—so you can move forward with confidence and clarity.
If either of these speaks to you, you’re exactly where you need to be.
What Our Students Are Saying
Words from Our Community of Thrivers
I wonder if Ben will ever understand how safe he makes people feel , well at least me ! I was abused by a narcissist for 12 long years all I can say is thank you Ben.
- Jennifer
Loving the programme & the consistency it ensures with moving forward.
- Sue
Thank you for all that you do. I'm hopeful now in a way I wasn't before.
- Wendy
The work and dedication Ben has demonstrated is that of high-level executives who respect, understand, and want you to grow, heal and develop as far as you are willing to work. I went through (Ben’s programs) and these choices were the best decisions of my life. So proud to be here. The support and attention we receive from Ben, his staff, and those in this community are unmatched. We know where we stand. We know as we pick up the pieces one by one and make sense of it all, we make progress. We are here for a reason. A heartfelt thank you for the breadth of knowledge I learned and for showing me how to take back my life with the tools inside of these programs. I went from broken to believer in just a few short months.
- Deb
Your lessons, your honest approach and you’re incredibly powerful statements cleared out for me a path that probably nobody had been able to show me, earlier on. Mind you me that my brother is a Psychiatrist, I have several friends who work as psychotherapists, and still no-one could help, even just discussing the matter. It was mostly discarded with "run away", "change partner", "love yourself first", but as we know, this is not the key neither the way to exit a trauma bond or heal a very deeply rooted trauma, generated by the experience with a potential narcissistic partner. Thank you for your support and outstanding work.
- Angelo
These programs gave me so much awareness of what I had been through for 36 years, cleared the FOG, reset my thinking and removed my trauma bond of the mental addiction I had with my ex-husband. I learned the false stories I had believed and identified the facts that created my new story and my purpose in life. I thank Ben and his team for creating a system that really works. To those of you on the fence on whether or not to sign up for a challenge, do you want this for the rest of your life? I didn't think so. I had fears, questions, and anxiety that you have, but I did one thing different. I did it anyway. I figured all these people in the group were in the same boat as me and together we'd learn how to row, how to encourage, how to look deep within ourselves, and I would not be alone. I encourage you to sign up. I'm living proof it changed my life, showed me who I am, and my purpose here--let it change yours.
- Sarah
My self-confidence and self-worth are reaching levels I did not anticipate. I'm helping others and gaining control of my life after decades of abuse. I encourage you to take the step of faith that this program will change your life, if you're willing to do the work. It is not complicated, but it requires you to make a commitment to yourself--to show up--for perhaps, the first time in a long time. Ben and his team know what works. Push the fear aside, learn the facts about what happened, and go forward in truth. The community of people you're with are going thru similar struggles and growing too, while being encouraged and understood. I'm living proof it can be done. Don't talk yourself out of it. Just do it!
- Lisa
Thank you for your insight and shared experiences, you opened a world of understanding of what was happening to me for 23 years and finally acknowledge that the only way out was within me one step at a time. I then knew that I and only I had the power to create that change, that I am God’s child and my FAITH in him had my back and I was on the road to freedom and self love. My faith in God has been amazing, I am blessed with good friends, great daughters, son-in-law’s and grandchildren that I deeply love and feel loved by, respected and treated with dignity not sometimes but as a way of life. Thank you for your truth.
- Arlean
Ben has an amazing way of understanding the painful subtlies of narcissistic abuse which allows him to help victims understand the urgency of calling out the BS that they are living with. He is very adept at helping victims truly look at what this abuse has cost them, as well as highlighting the immediate need to take action and change the trajectory of their life. He cares very much about helping abuse-survivers move to Thrivers! He has a kind, yet no-nonsense, way of keeping you on track and moving forward with the steps! Whichever program of his you choose to start with; I recommend that you start - soon! :)
- Jacqueline
Ben is spot on on every topic I have listened to! After having lived w/ my world class extreme narcissist husband for over 30 years, Ben confirmed that “YES” my husband knows/knew what he was doing all along and just does NOT care about me, our kids, or anyone else….ONLY “HIS reputation” and HIS money! Ben did an excellent job of accurately explaining how a NARC can compartmentalize people as objects and w/zero empathy and continue lying.
- Julie
Ben’s course has helped my life and my mental health in more ways than I can list here. The 7 day challenge gripped me from the beginning and the content has helped me with realizing I’m not struggling alone and things don’t have to be so confusing. I feel seen and understood because Ben is vulnerable and honest and relatable with his real experiences and sharing his wife’s side.
- JoAnne
I am very impressed so far with this program and I enjoyed meeting you "in person" today. I'm thankful that you are allowing God to use your "story" and your pain to help and bless others. I'm excited to go "all in" and do the work to become the best version of me! I am thankful for you and this program!
- Jeanne
Thank you Ben for your knowledge and expertise on the matter of narcissism...you are helping me just cope everyday living with a covert narc for 25 years. I am amazed at how far you have come from being a narc to a self aware teacher and expert. Thank you so much for all you do.
- Kim
Thank you Ben and everyone here that's helped put this amazing and affordable program together - this program helped me break free from the trauma bond and I know my life is forever changed! I don't even look at the narcissist like I use, complete reality shift!
- Kylee
Every word out of Ben's mouth is like I'm listening to my own life being narrated back to me. He is so on point and doesn’t pussy foot around. I can't believe I found this site. Ben is like a light, that is making me see things clearly. Thank you. Thank you.
- Jennifer
This program was just what I needed. I didn’t want it to end. It was the truths I needed to hear, how to deal with triggers as well as how to start working towards your new life. I do wish you offered more information about monthly group to keep working towards goals.
- Kim
I absolutely love Ben's teaching. It's like sitting in church! Ben’s perspective helps me resist the hoovers and to recognize the narcissists surrounding me. I say 'finally healing has begun!!!' Thank you Ben for your courageous heart!!
- Lori
The 45 day challenge changed my life and I feel like I finally have what I need to let go and move forward, I know, not just in my head, but in my heart, the kind of man I was dealing with, and how his own issues and healing are on him. He is not mine to save.
- Karen
It has been the best re-set of my life after being in an abusive and toxic marriage for decades. I have learned so much and will continue to grow, change, and develop with Ben’s programs. Much appreciation to Ben Taylor and his team! It has brought back my life that I thought was unrecoverable. Thank you!
- Melissa
more clients success stories
Take Control of Your Future with Unchained: Your 30-Day Roadmap to Freedom
Now’s Your Time To Heal & Reclaim Your Life.
With Unchained, you’re joining a family. We support you every step of the way.
Your Body: Constant stress and emotional turmoil from this relationship can lead to chronic fatigue, headaches, digestive issues, and even weakened immunity. Your body becomes a battleground, carrying the weight of emotional pain.
Your Being: You lose your sense of self, your confidence, and your connection to who you truly are. Self-doubt and fear of speaking up become constant companions, leaving you feeling like a shell of who you once were.
Your Balance: A toxic relationship isolates you from others. Friendships fade, family connections weaken, and the emotional rollercoaster leaves you too drained to engage with the people who truly matter.
Your Business or Career: The impact spills into your career and financial well-being. Lack of focus, missed opportunities, and financial strain from legal fees, therapy, or coping mechanisms can keep you from thriving professionally.
Unchained isn’t just a course—it’s a complete roadmap to breaking free, healing, and building a life rooted in strength, confidence, and purpose.
30 days: Of Education, Tools, & Empowerment.................INCLUDED
24 videos: 2 hours, 44 minutes to watch & absorb..........INCLUDED
75 audios: 7.5 hours to listen & learn..........................................INCLUDED
10+ TOTAL HOURS: Of Content......................................................INCLUDED
30 Daily Growth Prompts: Action Steps................................INCLUDED
Recognizing the Narcissist’s Tactics...........................................INCLUDED
Understanding and Ending the Emotional Hold..............INCLUDED
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace................INCLUDED
Rebuilding and Reinforcing Your Sense of Self..................INCLUDED
The Freedom Formula & Moving Forward.............................INCLUDED
30 days: Of Education, Tools, & Empowerment...........................INCLUDED
24 videos: 2 hours, 44 minutes to watch & absorb............................INCLUDED
75 audios: 7.5 hours to listen & learn...................................................INCLUDED
10+ TOTAL HOURS: Of Content................. ...............................................................INCLUDED
30 Daily Growth Prompts: Action Steps..................................................INCLUDED
Recognizing the Narcissist’s Tactics...............................................INCLUDED
Understanding and Ending the Emotional Hold..........................INCLUDED
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace.....................................INCLUDED
Rebuilding and Reinforcing Your Sense of Self................................INCLUDED
The Freedom Formula & Moving Forward...........................................INCLUDED
This is your moment to break free from the past and step into a life filled with strength, clarity, and peace.
Join Unchained, and during the next 30 days, you’ll have the tools, support,
and confidence you need to find your voice, reclaim your life and start thriving.
Imagine what one month of true support could do for you — I’m ready to help you get there, and I can’t wait to see you on the inside!
This is your moment to break free from the past and
step into a life filled with strength, clarity, and peace.
Join Unchained, and during the next 30 days, you’ll have the tools, support,
and confidence you need to find your voice, reclaim your life and start thriving.
Imagine what one month of true support could do for you — I’m
ready to help you get there, and I can’t wait to see you on the inside!
Frequently asked Question
Unchained provides daily, actionable steps, insights from someone who’s been on both sides of abuse, and a community of women who understand your journey—all designed to create real transformation.
Yes! You’ll have access to a private group of fellow women who provide support, encouragement, and accountability every step of the way..
The program is structured for 30 days, but you’re free to move at your own pace. You will have access to the content for 30-days and during that time you can take the time you need, and revisit lessons whenever you want.
Unchained provides both practical skills and deep emotional healing, empowering you to take control of your life in ways therapy alone might not address. While therapy can be an important part of your journey, Unchained complements it by offering daily guidance, actionable tools, and a structured approach to breaking free and rebuilding your confidence. Many participants find it enhances their therapeutic work, while others experience transformative results through the program on its own.
Absolutely! Unchained is designed to guide you through each step, whether you’re new to healing work or have tried other approaches before.
The full Unchained program is a one-time payment of $197, granting you lifetime access to all content, tools, and resources.
Q: What happens if I change my mind?
If you decide Unchained isn’t for you within the first 30 days, reach out, and we’ll discuss your options. My goal is to support your healing journey in the best way possible.
Your New Chapter Starts Here
Imagine waking up each day with a clear mind, trusting your own voice, and finally feeling free from the grip of toxic love. Picture yourself reclaiming your life, setting strong boundaries, and building the confidence to move forward with purpose and strength. That’s the life you deserve, isn’t it?
Unchained will help you turn that vision into your reality.
Break the Trauma Bond
Reclaim Your Voice
Master Your Emotions
Set Unbreakable Boundaries
Lift the FOG
Stop the Rumination
Reignite Your Self Worth
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